Take charge of your marriage relationship in a positive way with a positive attitude. If you are not happy with your spouse and if you are serious about improving your ties it is high time now to look into and travel inward. Get ready and prepared to make changes in you. Watch out your own negative attitudes and go through it, to find out the steps you can do for yourself to make your marriage relation better. Attitude is everything in life especially in marriage. What you expect will be the result in your life. Happiness, joy, peace, anger, sadness, jealousy are the outcomes in one's life based on the 'line on thoughts' in your mind. Negative attitude creates negative responses and positive attitude creates positive responses. Your spouse is the most important person in your life and world. So it is not in vain if you set aside some time to do something that can satisfy both of you with a positive attitude. It is not at all shameful to do changes in your attitude which your spouse don't welcome such as complaining, being angry, being jealous, being rude or being negative. When you correct yourself than the technique is easy to bring your spouse on a 'We' track rather than being on a parallel track of 'I' and 'You'. Your attitude of getting rid of your negative thoughts make you feel positive and experience the positive emotions flowing in you. This helps you to erase all the negative thoughts from your mind and write down new positive thoughts to enjoy your life with your spouse. Make it a point to think positively to develop a positive approach in your marriage. Attitude is the pre-thinking session of your next response. It is not easy to sit back and dream for a happy marriage, it is to be created.
Appreciation and gratitude towards your spouse in thoughtful ways are very important.
Acquire the skills to forgive and forget.
Even if you get angry with your spouse do not go beyond bed.
Sharing and caring is so important to respect your spouse.
Don't feel that couples are too old to hold hands and say 'I love you'.
These are some of the techniques we practiced in our marriage of more than four decades.
Theory cannot make changes in one's life.
Based on your life experiences go for 'trial and error process' to build your marital life happy and successful.
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