Listen carefully to telephone calls. Even if we are not seeing each other, even if we are not having eye contact we can very well understand the body language through the voice and the way we answer. It is great to know the way to speak while in phone and to maintain healthy relations. It is also great to know to keep in touch with dear and near ones.
The caller is having the opportunity to ask the first question. But in close relations we often get the over freedom of the person on the other end to know the news from the caller. Be patient, listen to the caller and then spread the conversation to your area of interest if time provides.
When a subject is presented by the caller, be patient to hear the whole thing with out going for comparisons you had in your life with the same problem. That will build up irritation to the other person because he wants to share his problem at the moment, that is why he made the call.
Never ever try to distract the caller who is so close to you. There are a lot of people who doesn't have time to spare for others. They live in a 'yes' or 'no' world. They want to disconnect the phone quickly. So they will highlight their duty at home disconnecting the caller. To me I should remind that it is an unknowingly cruel thing by the receiver. So also youngsters are taking the privilege not to call their near ones such as parents, grandparents, uncles and aunties. They used to say they were very busy. Usually they say that there was a missed call from mom, let me call her. That is not the way to connect with mom. If you are kind at heart, you cannot forget to call your near ones on a time based schedule. Because they don't want to disturb you in your busy life, they are waiting you to call. If you saw their missed call means they are at stress and pain. It is our duty to make our dear and near ones happy. The compassion and kindness in our phone calls can make it healthy and maintain healthy relations.
The caller is having the opportunity to ask the first question. But in close relations we often get the over freedom of the person on the other end to know the news from the caller. Be patient, listen to the caller and then spread the conversation to your area of interest if time provides.
When a subject is presented by the caller, be patient to hear the whole thing with out going for comparisons you had in your life with the same problem. That will build up irritation to the other person because he wants to share his problem at the moment, that is why he made the call.
Never ever try to distract the caller who is so close to you. There are a lot of people who doesn't have time to spare for others. They live in a 'yes' or 'no' world. They want to disconnect the phone quickly. So they will highlight their duty at home disconnecting the caller. To me I should remind that it is an unknowingly cruel thing by the receiver. So also youngsters are taking the privilege not to call their near ones such as parents, grandparents, uncles and aunties. They used to say they were very busy. Usually they say that there was a missed call from mom, let me call her. That is not the way to connect with mom. If you are kind at heart, you cannot forget to call your near ones on a time based schedule. Because they don't want to disturb you in your busy life, they are waiting you to call. If you saw their missed call means they are at stress and pain. It is our duty to make our dear and near ones happy. The compassion and kindness in our phone calls can make it healthy and maintain healthy relations.
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